If you marry a Pakistani man beware. This is a sizzling hot topic. Many Pakistani men come to the US or the UK in search of a better life. Furthermore, to get that life, some seek out women in the US or the UK for marriage. I will use the word “foreign” when I speak of the women who the Pakistani men prey on.
Many of the women want to marry a Pakistani man because most of the men seem kind, sweet, charming, and debonair. After all, exotic is enticing. The woman sees him as the man of her dreams, as he tends to treat her like a princess. Most of the women don’t know that the Pakistani man uses those qualities to trap them. Some of these men are deceitful. A Foreign woman who marries a Pakistani man may find herself spun in a web of deception.
I say to women from the US or the UK, marry a Pakistani man beware
I say it because many of the women marry these men without knowing the truth. Over the years, here at polygamy 411, I’ve learned a lot about this topic from the foreign women commentators. The women married Pakistani men not knowing that the men were already married. Many of the Pakistani men marry foreign women without letting them know that they are already married. They don’t tell the women that they already have wives. Some have children, as well. The children are left back in Pakistan. More often than not, the Pakistani man will marry or married his first cousin whose in Pakistan. They had an “arranged marriage.” When the already married Pakistani man marries the foreign woman, it makes him polygamous.
Often these Pakistani men never take the foreign wives to Pakistan to meet their families, relatives, or friends. The people in Pakistan may not know of the wife who is in the US or the UK. The husband keeps the foreign wife a secret. She’s what’s known as a “Secret Wife.”
A foreign woman who marries a Pakistani man beware, as she may one day get the surprise of her life
The husband may one day say he has to go back to Pakistan. While gone, he married someone else. The someone else most likely was his first cousin. He says his mother made him do it. Furthermore, he gives the foreign wife excuses as to why he couldn’t defy his mother. Although the reason is cultural, he’ll say it’s Islam. He’s got it twisted. It has absolutely nothing to do with Islam.
The foreign wife becomes distraught when she learns of her husband’s other marriage. It doesn’t matter if it was an arranged marriage or otherwise. The foreign wife doesn’t know what to do. She’s already emotionally invested. She has made a life with this man. Consequently, she now has a huge problem. It’s extremely difficult and painful for her, as she struggles to figure out what to do.
Why do these Pakistani men do this to foreign women? Many do it to get citizenship/naturalization/immigration status in the US or the UK. They do it to foreign women from other countries, as well. The men want a better life for themselves and their families back home in Pakistan and do whatever it takes to get it for them.
Some fall in love with their foreign wives. Others don’t. The men just get the immigration status that they sought and then divorce the foreign wife. The men throw them out like they’re trash.
Foreign women who marry a Pakistani man beware. Beware of the lies, deceit and betrayal that may await you
A foreign woman should thoroughly investigate the Pakistani man whom she intends to marry. She should make sure she meets his family, relatives, and friends in Pakistan. She should ask him if he is already married or if his family has arranged a marriage for him to take place in the future. He very well may lie, but it’s a chance she takes.
She should make safe her assets. She, for instance, should keep her funds separate from his or have a prenuptial agreement. Most importantly, she should act using intellect and not emotions. These men are suave and very convincing.
I’m not saying that every Pakistani man is as I described above. I just want you to know that I have learned there are very many Pakistani men who have done all that I have stated. We all know nothing is absolute except our Creator. I simply urge all women that if they marry a Pakistani man beware!
The problem is so serious that the Muslim Minister Baroness Warsi spoke on it. Click link below to read the article:
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